Three Photos, an Old Poem, a Painting in my Brain...

... and another ramble from a memory.  In the seventies and early eighties, I had an "aunt and uncle" who built a dreamhouse on Cape Cod. Joy was actually my mom's first cousin, but they grew up around the corner from one another in New York (Flushing), so felt the relationship was more like sisters. She was about ten years younger than mom and we always thought of her as Aunt Joy. It was to her place in Paris my sister and I went during the summer of '74, when I was graduated from college.

My aunt designed and had built a wondrous home at the Cape, to which  my sister, my best friend G, and I would run for a joint birthday celebration of G's and mine. Joy was a gourmet cook and would make us fabulous meals. She was estranged from her daughter and I was the surrogate. Or so she said.

You know what? For now I will cut to the chase. Four years after I was married, she called one day and told us Jack's "Ship had come in." He was a brilliant man--ultimately part of the group that invented the early voice recognition for telephones. A computer scientist who put himself through school playing, as he called it "cocktail hour piano." He relocated from his position for ITT (Then) International to form his own research company and he said that he had sold at long last, one of his patents. Joy was ecstatic and immediately they called me and told me that I would never have to worry about Mark's and my kids' education again. They had a big dinner for all four of us kids and our children to tell us they were setting up college funds for the kids and were giving every adult in the group an income GIFT of $10k a year! To us, it was something.

And if I could not trust my surrogate parents, the aunt who had been there for me during my twenties, when my mom's drinking had overtaken her more than half the time, well...

And they called me especially, telling me that they were sending me fifteen thousand dollars to get a GOOD CAR and pay for the added auto insurance, title fees, etc. The check did not come, but they insisted there were glitches. In the meantime, I called G, who was newly out of law school, that she should plan on a vacation.

One of G's shots related to
where this ramble's headed

She and I were renting a place in New Hampshire to take a long dreamed of vacation together so she could have autumn shots of New Hampshire.  She had an affinity for shots in the mist, taken through foliage, and of reflections.  The Lake beckoned. I kept putting off getting the car, though, wisely thinking it was best to simply pay, not get a short-term loan. But I made our reservations.

Finally, Jack called and said, "I just mailed the check. Why don't you get the car."

Mark said, "Honey. Let's go get that car you picked out and just take the loan and pay it off in a few days. It's the only one on the lot."

We got it. It was the color of my skin when I got a tan. Back then I had only lately given up tanning...

I called Joy and told her, then drove to my folks' house later in the day so that they could see I no longer had the breakdown king of cars. The phone rang. My dad got off the phone.

"It was a lie. Jack was picked up by the police, drunk, trying to buy a gun and shoot himself. He didn't sell a thing. He refinanced their paid for house and made it look like they were rich. He is penniless."

And I had a car we could not pay for.

There is far more to that story, but that is enough. My parents helped us out. And my husband said that we would FIND THE MONEY and to just go on vacation.  We had lately found out that my dad was dying...

part of the image G gave me for my wall

G and I went and it was wonderful. I would park my brand new, comfy car, and she would get herself into contortions to take pictures. And in the course of our adventures, we found this One House Island (that may be our name for it) on, yes, Golden Pond.


 When we got home, of course, all hell broke loose for year after year after year, it seemed.

But along the way, I wrote poetry. I do not say it was good poetry, but it helped me.  And one night I dreamed an image, and the next day wrote a poem so that I would not forget.

The other shot she took

Dream Witch of Holderness
In the mist, a castle-cottage
Rising silent from the water
Like the Loch Ness Monster --
You startle.

Un-turreted, but towering;
Alone, on small island nestled,
Where no safe harbor welcomes --
Only rocks.

Does your dock draw up at night?

Does your long-necked, pine-crowned bough
(So still and silent serpent
Over now day-misted lake)
Snake further still in the dark?

Turning gently to its queen,
"Dear Sorceress within,"
Does it whispering to you ask
"Where do we wander tonight?"

Then silent as owl's flight,
Does my Innisfree arise,
Unfurling gold-scaled dragon wings,
And vanish?

Do you color these worlds I dream?


In my head I took the dock in the background and combined it with the memory of a giant fallen tree you cannot see from this angle. It snakes into the Lake a good ten feet, but it is from a direction where she could not get a decent picture. There rocks in the right background jutting out to the left.  G took many photos of misty still waters, brilliant foliage breaking through it. She has a painting I did based on her work hanging next to the two inspiration shots at her house, in fact. We used to be like that, working off of each other's art. The image in my head had more the mist of the first painting.

 I dreamed that poem once again. Last night. I have to work on it now. I don't know whether I yet have the skill for it, but I have to try. Eventually I will get it, I know. Plus I have to finish the painting "Snow on October Fire" too. This means I'll not be writing for a bit. Not long, but probably not more--except on comments, of course!  Joy died before Christmas. Jack's senility has made him kind... such a gentle surprise. Many difficult memories reside with these two as well--I may or may not write of them. But I remembered the Joy who was there for me, and tried for thirty-five years to find her again. She left when she lost that Cape House. She never came back...

But has so often been the case, out of a time of pain and turmoil, came nuggets of great beauty and wonder for me, and a simple children's poem, and an image that haunts me still. I had to wait until I could BEGIN to paint it, until I could feel Joy's death as LOSS, to find my way back to it again.

In Arnold's words, "Ah'll be Bahck."

PS
I just finished a sketch that has promise! Kinda excited now.